Friends come and go, but later they will return. You just have to admit there are times when you need your friends more than your family. It's pretty complicated, actually, but even if the truth hurt or disappoint you, you just have to accept it. There are things you can do with your family but you are able to do it with your friends and vice versa. That's how things go, as defined friendship. But if you are able to perceive this freedom, you will not have to experience serious problems with tearing of a friend.
Remember that friends are people too and they are a group of people with their families and their concerns. So do not blame them when they can not be there all the time, even if they are your best friends. But a good friend always offer their sympathy and care, although they can not physically be there beside you. They will give you a brief phone call anyway, even when they are really busy. But when they do not, your best bet is to assume that they are just as stressed as you are.
Remember that friends are people too and they are a group of people with their families and their concerns. So do not blame them when they can not be there all the time, even if they are your best friends. But a good friend always offer their sympathy and care, although they can not physically be there beside you. They will give you a brief phone call anyway, even when they are really busy. But when they do not, your best bet is to assume that they are just as stressed as you are.
